Personally, I think she has the right to take whatever she wants to away from the incident – so long as it hurts nobody else. Everything in life is a matter of our “point of view”. My wife sent this to me in an email from work – hope you enjoy the laugh!
Vernon Pope 
I love getting carded. It’s like a game to me. I had the biggest laugh when someone carded me when I bought cigarettes. I mean, do I actually look less than 18 years old?
When I was working in a convenience store (several, actually) I was told to card anyone who looked less than 30, just to be safe. Yes, you do look younger than 30, dear.