I’m still dealing with a migraine, but this needs to be shared.
I have believed for several years now that intuition, for lack of a better term, is a skill that can be developed. Oh, and I’ve been actively trying to develop mine, by looking for those times when my “gut feeling” told me one thing was right, and then seeing how things turned out. Over time, I’ve been learning to trust my instinct, even when the facts of a situation appear to go against it. That isn’t easy for someone who once (and to some degree still does) venerated SPOCK from Star Trek.
However, the problem with intuition is that when you get one of those feelings, it is tough to explain the idea to someone else, as my little narrative is about to demonstrate.
Re-wind to about 0300 hrs Sunday morning. I was sitting there playing a video game when I felt a migraine kick in. It was a real hum dinger, too. When my wife got up, I had all the lights off except for a table lamp 15 feet away from me, and the TV volume was turned down so low you couldn’t hear the sound at all if you were 10 feet from the TV. Even with all of that, I was wearing sunglasses. I’d taken Imitrex AND Excedrin, and still couldn’t relax. It was THAT bad. I normally would go to bed at around 0700, but I was up until 1330.
I mostly tossed and turned, not getting any real rest, until my bladder needed relief at almost 2100. When I got up, one of the first things I noticed was that odd “gut feeling” that something was off. I couldn’t tell you what it was, but something was wrong. By the time I got to the living room, I noticed that my wife was about a half-hour into the most recent BATMAN movie (with Christian Bale as BATMAN). If she’d stayed up to watch the whole thing, it would have been almost 2300 when she went to sleep. I did a bad job of pointing that out to her, and we had a small spat and then ironed it out. She went to bed, and I sat there wondering how I could have expressed my concern better. On went the sunglasses, and I did a bit more gaming.
Then, at about 2345 I noticed what the problem was that had plagued me hours earlier when I got up.
My wife’s bedside alarm clock went off at 0600 Monday morning, and when she sat up I handed her a single AA battery. She put her glasses on, looked it over, and asked why she needed that. I whispered that she needed to follow me.
In the living room, her chair sits closest to the wall clock AND the TV. Due to it’s orientation, her natural habit is to look up at the clock whenever she wants to know the time, even when she’s currently using her laptop. At 0600 Monday morning, that wall clock still said it was 2048 of the night before, and the second hand was still struggling mightily to complete it’s climb to 2049. Suddenly she was very glad I’d made an issue of her getting to bed the night before, even if we both still acknowledged that I had done a poor job of it.
After a quick action of replacing the battery, the clock resumed working perfectly.